As for shooting the mighty .357 at the range - Maybe I'm a bit of a nut case but I thoroughly enjoy all of the sensations that most others find discomforting: The more kick/recoil, Blast/noise, and muzzle/gap flash the more thrill I get out of it.
This is part of the reason why I enjoy .44 Magnums. I like a gun to have plenty of heft and I like it to remind me that I've fired it. Since I have been accustomed to both qualities for a long time, the novelty has gone out of experiencing the excessive weight and recoil, blast, etc. Thus, I don't "enjoy" these characteristics, per se, but they don't bother me either. However, every time I pick one of them up and fire it, I'm reminded that I'm using the tool that fits me best when it comes to self-defense, hunting, etc. Same goes for 12 gauge shotguns. I tend to think that the weight, recoil, boom, and flash give me a sense of security and comfort rather than joy.
As the saying goes, "One man's meat is another man's poison."