Salt said:
"A small revolver chambered in a .357 magnum is a bad idea, but a small revolver chambered in .38 S&W... would be easy to shoot."
I disagree. I suggest using a small revolver chambered in .357, BUT shooting .38 Spcl out of it. Just because it's a .357 doesn't mean you have to actually shoot .357 out of it. And the .357 revolver is likely to be a bit heavier than its .38 Spcl cousin, thus reducing perceived recoil given the same ammo.
JohnKsa:
I agree with you on the .380 Govt. model. My wife has one and likes it. It is soft recoiling and the recoil spring is light. Unfortunately, no longer in production and hard to find.
As I said, if a .38 is too much recoil, then a .22lr revolver like a S&W 317 with a lightend trigger often works.
I don't have any experience with the Kel-tec P32, since it has never been sold in MA.
The key in this is to have them choose for themselves. You and your wife have found what works for you. But just because something doesn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for other people.
glockgazda:
The K9 certainly is the right size and the trigger pull isn't too heavy. Unfortunately, even with the reduced power recoil spring, my women students still often have trouble with it. In particular, they are unable to lock the slide open. And putting it back together after field-stripping can be a chore -- I suspect that non-captured recoil spring would be very difficult for many women. (That's not a problem for my wife -- her solution is to have me clean her guns
) Some of my friends over at Aware
http://www.aware.org have had good luck training women on a S&W 3913, but I suspect the long, heavy DA trigger pull might be tough for some.
If the semi-auto has an exposed hammer that can be thumbcocked (e.g., Sig P239), then they can cock the hammer manually before racking the slide.
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