As some of you already know, my wife has been out of town for the last month. I never really said why, but she had told me it was because her mother was in the hospital and very ill and she needed to go to GA to be with her. Well, I was at work this morning (on the range-see, gun related-
) and this squeaky little cuss in a bad suit strolled up and said the magic words "Mr. Weaver, You've been served". Hit me like a ton of bricks. I just though I was being sued, maybe I forgot to dot an i on my business licence or something. But no...my wife had filed for divorce!!!! WHAT..where did this come from. Everything was going fine. We just had our first child May 7th, we had bought a house together last year, the bills were all payed and we had a little extra to enjoy each month...We have never been happier, or so I though. I was always faithful, NEVER mistreated her, never raised my voice to her, always stood by her during the tough times, suported her in everything she did, and loved her with every fiber of my being. During the whole time she was gone, I never suspected anything. Infact, I talked to her every morning and every night...she acted like nothing was wrong.
The problem that caused this had been present since we got married....she never fully cut the aprin strings. I thought it was beautiful to see a family as close as hers, but it really bothered me that when something was wrong, she turned to her mother and sister instead of me. When little suspicious thing would happen (like a woman calls and has the wrong number) she would always call her mom and sister before even talking to me. She never gave me the benifit of the doubt. Well, now her paranoid dillusional sister (who also happens to be a multi-millionare from an accident settlement with Wall-Mart) has put the idea in her head that she should divorce me and move to Texas or GA with her.
Here is where the BIG problem lies. I'm self employed and have no health insurance. The combination of a sizable 9/11 donation late last year and the unexpected emegency C-section and following complications has totaly wiped out my savings. I had saved and planed for the birth, but noone saw the emergency C-section coming. I had enough to cover the medical bills, but thats all...and I wanted to go ahead and pay everything up, so we wouldn't have any extra bills each month. I have no money left for a lawyer, her sister has hired a dream team. I'll be lucky to leave with the shirt on my back. She is going to move my son to either Texas or GA and there is nothing I can do to stop it.
Even if I could afford a lawyer, I don't know how much fight there is in me. I stood before God, professed my love for this woman, and promised to stand by her through thick and thin. I ment that promis. My love for her is like a river, deep and abideing, and it will never go away.
Please pray for me.
) and this squeaky little cuss in a bad suit strolled up and said the magic words "Mr. Weaver, You've been served". Hit me like a ton of bricks. I just though I was being sued, maybe I forgot to dot an i on my business licence or something. But no...my wife had filed for divorce!!!! WHAT..where did this come from. Everything was going fine. We just had our first child May 7th, we had bought a house together last year, the bills were all payed and we had a little extra to enjoy each month...We have never been happier, or so I though. I was always faithful, NEVER mistreated her, never raised my voice to her, always stood by her during the tough times, suported her in everything she did, and loved her with every fiber of my being. During the whole time she was gone, I never suspected anything. Infact, I talked to her every morning and every night...she acted like nothing was wrong. The problem that caused this had been present since we got married....she never fully cut the aprin strings. I thought it was beautiful to see a family as close as hers, but it really bothered me that when something was wrong, she turned to her mother and sister instead of me. When little suspicious thing would happen (like a woman calls and has the wrong number) she would always call her mom and sister before even talking to me. She never gave me the benifit of the doubt. Well, now her paranoid dillusional sister (who also happens to be a multi-millionare from an accident settlement with Wall-Mart) has put the idea in her head that she should divorce me and move to Texas or GA with her.
Here is where the BIG problem lies. I'm self employed and have no health insurance. The combination of a sizable 9/11 donation late last year and the unexpected emegency C-section and following complications has totaly wiped out my savings. I had saved and planed for the birth, but noone saw the emergency C-section coming. I had enough to cover the medical bills, but thats all...and I wanted to go ahead and pay everything up, so we wouldn't have any extra bills each month. I have no money left for a lawyer, her sister has hired a dream team. I'll be lucky to leave with the shirt on my back. She is going to move my son to either Texas or GA and there is nothing I can do to stop it.
Even if I could afford a lawyer, I don't know how much fight there is in me. I stood before God, professed my love for this woman, and promised to stand by her through thick and thin. I ment that promis. My love for her is like a river, deep and abideing, and it will never go away.
Please pray for me.
