for some reason people who don't consider suicide think it's a bad thing.
I believe the main reason most consider suicide a bad thing is religious training. Christianity has taught for nearly a couple thousand years that suicide is a mortal sin. Not only is it "throwing away" God's gift of life, but it is the one sin you cannot ask forgiveness for.
Note that in our laws, suicide is NOT a crime (kind of pointless to punish the dead), but
attempted suicide is.
As to the "Doc" asking questions they have no business asking, I agree in principle, but one must look at their side of the street, as well. Its not all just because of an individual or institutional bias against gun ownership. The bias is there, absolutely, but its is not the sole reason. The real valid reason, which that bias is wrapped in like a "cloak of invisibility" is actual concern for our health.
People lie. People lie to their doctors. Sometimes on purpose. Be aware that the docs notes include MORE than just your answers to their questions. They include notes on your physical appearance, AND your perceived mental state at the time of the visit.
And these notes (which you have no control over, or input on) DO form part of their diagnosis. These notes, which
can be entirely the personal opinion of the DOC (nurse, PA, etc) become part of the "professional medical opinion", and are accepted as true and accurate without any independent review or confirmation.
Suppose, for instance, you are up in the woods cutting firewood. You've been camping a couple days, working getting the winter wood cut. You drop a piece of log on your foot. Hurts like heck, swells up, trouble walking, etc. You head to the Doc/emergency room to see if its broken.
You show up in dirty, torn clothes (work clothes to you), maybe you haven't had a bath/shower in a couple days (or more?), you hurt, you are not your usual charming self, and not willing to suffer fools gladly.
You get ticked when they ask if you own guns, or are depressed, etc. (After all its none of their business, what the heck does that have to do with my FOOT! for pete's sake!, etc.)
What might get put in those notes that you don't see?
"patient does not exhibit normal interest in care of appearance."
"patient became agitated and uncooperative when asked questions".
etc.
Things like this, taken alone (and they will be by anyone/everyone looking at the record, because the record does not explain that your side of the story). could "indicate the presence of mental illness".
Reality doesn't matter, their perception of reality can become YOUR reality, without your input or control.
Those "cracks" in the system that everyone talks about the truly mad slipping through, can get some of us who aren't mentally ill stuck in. Because of someone else's
opinion.
It shouldn't happen, but it does, to some people, sometimes. Actual errors I can accept, but this kind of thing can be made to happen by people more concerned with their personal views of what is needed to protect society than with the care they are being paid to give their patients.
(sure this situation is hypothetical, and a "worst case", but it is not outside the realm of possibility)