Handy,
You get the same offer I just made to John. Drop me a kite and I'll send you an invite to the blow out when MY BUDDIES COME BACK.
Something I never got to do for a lot of buddies thirty years ago. It was not popular and they all went low key. NOW I CAN CELEBRATE THEIR SERVICE WITH THEM. LRRPs, heli pilots, plain old gurnts, sailors, etc (a lot of us ride togehter when we can now). All my newer buddies just LOVE to hear all the 'old guys' tell their VI ET NAM stories. Of course, guys MY AGE love to listen to my Dad talk about WWII. Battle of the Bulge. Bridge at Remagen, Fighting 99th (the Checkerboard).
SO, don't believe me. I don't care. It's cool. I KNOW what I've done, where I've been and I'm proud of all of it. Would NOT repeat some of it, but yeah, proud to have survived this long. And making friends like I have along the way MEANS more to me than anything the internet has to offer. I left this board two (three?) years ago. My health took a turn for the worse, right after 9/11. As I'm adopted and don't know my medical history, I freaked. So now I just do what I want.
And I just try and take life one day at a time. I worry over my buddies in ME. I NEVER ASK specifics, and I pray every night for each one to come home safely and in one peice physically. THEY will NEVER be the same. I know that. I am confident YOU AND JOHN know that also.
And I respect your disbelief. But I do offer you that chance to suspend that disbelief if you wish. Up to you. I know how busy life can make all of us. And sometimes, boom, a friend dies. Gets divorced. Or run over by an inattentive driver. And on. And on. And on. Do what's BEST for you.
And guys, IF YOU WANT TO RIDICULE ME IN FRONT OF THE BOARD, I'M AN ADULT AND MAN ENOUGH TO TAKE YOUR SLINGS AND ARROWS. I am neither afraid nor hurt, as my skin is way to thick for anything like that. But, you both are also WELCOME to contact me privately to RIDICULE me if you wish, saving the boards bandwidth. Unless YOU feel the need to do so publicly. In which case I DO UNDERSTAND. But so you all understand, I don't BACK UP worth a damn. But I do understand if you don't believe.
And so everyone here DOES UNDERSTAND. I use the WALLEW log in all over the net. SO, if you see that handle, IT SHOULD BE ME. I also use that as my 'Nome de plume' (name I write under) for motorcycle rags also and I have TWO personalized license plates (CA & CO) that say that same thing from years ago. I now try to present a lower keyed outward appearance. I no longer go at 100 mph, SCREAMING, with my hair on fire. I no longer have that much hair, my voice and eyes are slowly going, but I still have a lead foot. I am politically active for TWO things - motorcycles and firearms issues. As my knees go, my motorcycle days will cease. Hopefully I'll at least be able to still shoot.
John & Handy, keep up the good posts. Jw