Yankee Traveler
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So the wife and I visited a couple of ranges over the past couple of weeks and we sampled a few pistols and I was looking for a few opinions to bolster mine (or not...).
The first visit was my wifes first visit to a range or a gun shop, and her first time shooting a pistol of any kind. We handled a few pistols and conversed with a couple of the proprieters who immediatly asked my wife if she had ever shot a pistol. After she had hefted a number of them, one of the fellas offered her a Lady Smith .38. She basically said comfortable and balanced but no safety, only six shots, reloading with a clip seems faster...
So we rented a Walther P22 just to get her used to loud noises and holes in paper and went down stairs with a few boxes of .22 LR. I was chivalrious (sp?) enough to load the clip and work the slide for her usually but not always. Nice little gun and cheap fun.
Then we decided to take it up a notch and went back and traded the Walther for a Glock 19. Both my wife and I found the pistol very uncomfortable to shoot, load, rack and just handle.
Weekend #2 and a different range/gunshop as we were looking for a vareity of choices (I was looking for 1911's to rent for one thing) and it was immediatly a different atmosphere. The guy behind the counter (much more derogatory phrases come to mind) was asked if he had an XD9 for rent As a buddy had recomended it and we had already tried the Glock. He immediatly said women can't shoot automatics because they can't operate the slide. Girls need something like this Lady Smith .38 because they are simple. Because women will get emotional when shooting and not know how to operate a safety and they are not strong enough to operate a slide.
I pressed for an XD9 which he avoided and when I asked about a 1911 for rent (not brand or caliber specific) he proceeded to tell me what a cannon HE was carrying (and displayed his) and that they were hard to handle and not for everyone. If WE needed something bigger then a 9mm what most women need (for some reason fixated on my wife) beside the bed is a Mossberg 500 with a pistol grip, just hold it against your hip and keep working the pump...(*** dude???)
So back at range #1 we discovered they didn't have an XD9 to rent but here is an M&P in 9mm or a sig 226 in 9mm. The wife didn't care for the balance of the Sig so we took the M&P down to the range and put a few hundred rounds through it. GREAT GUN! Smooth Balanced. Both my wife and I could easily put 17 rounds in the clip, and work the slide. Recoil was also easily managed by my wife (not a big lady by any means either a fit 5'4" @115lbs) so I kicked it up agian and swapped the M&P for an XD45. Another great gun, a little tougher to get the 13th round in the mag, and just a hair tougher to rack the slide but nothing she couldn't handle, and she said she really didn't notice a difference in the recoil, but it was louder. Again, couple hundred rounds later...
A couple of questions to those who have shot both guns in either the same caliber, or all calibers. The XD45 seemed to be a little top heavy and not as balanced as the M&P 9 like the distance from the top of my grip to the centerline of the barrel was much greater, is it the same with the XD9 or is that simply a result of the larger shell casing? Therefore, does the M&P in .45 have a lower bore centerline like the 9mm or is it higher due to the larger caseing? Unfortunatly I was not able to compare apples to apples or oranges to oranges. The XD45's extra flip seemed to come from the added distance then from the caliber itself. I am looking for a HD handgun that we can take to the range and have some good cheap fun (!!!) The 9 will be cheaper but in which gun? I prefer the .45 and my wife liked the XD as well how does an M&P 45 shoot?
He did have 3 Gold cups for sale but none for rent, she thought it was heavy, I thought it was heaven.
Opinions and thoughts please, and thanks for letting me rant...
The first visit was my wifes first visit to a range or a gun shop, and her first time shooting a pistol of any kind. We handled a few pistols and conversed with a couple of the proprieters who immediatly asked my wife if she had ever shot a pistol. After she had hefted a number of them, one of the fellas offered her a Lady Smith .38. She basically said comfortable and balanced but no safety, only six shots, reloading with a clip seems faster...
So we rented a Walther P22 just to get her used to loud noises and holes in paper and went down stairs with a few boxes of .22 LR. I was chivalrious (sp?) enough to load the clip and work the slide for her usually but not always. Nice little gun and cheap fun.
Then we decided to take it up a notch and went back and traded the Walther for a Glock 19. Both my wife and I found the pistol very uncomfortable to shoot, load, rack and just handle.
Weekend #2 and a different range/gunshop as we were looking for a vareity of choices (I was looking for 1911's to rent for one thing) and it was immediatly a different atmosphere. The guy behind the counter (much more derogatory phrases come to mind) was asked if he had an XD9 for rent As a buddy had recomended it and we had already tried the Glock. He immediatly said women can't shoot automatics because they can't operate the slide. Girls need something like this Lady Smith .38 because they are simple. Because women will get emotional when shooting and not know how to operate a safety and they are not strong enough to operate a slide.
I pressed for an XD9 which he avoided and when I asked about a 1911 for rent (not brand or caliber specific) he proceeded to tell me what a cannon HE was carrying (and displayed his) and that they were hard to handle and not for everyone. If WE needed something bigger then a 9mm what most women need (for some reason fixated on my wife) beside the bed is a Mossberg 500 with a pistol grip, just hold it against your hip and keep working the pump...(*** dude???)
So back at range #1 we discovered they didn't have an XD9 to rent but here is an M&P in 9mm or a sig 226 in 9mm. The wife didn't care for the balance of the Sig so we took the M&P down to the range and put a few hundred rounds through it. GREAT GUN! Smooth Balanced. Both my wife and I could easily put 17 rounds in the clip, and work the slide. Recoil was also easily managed by my wife (not a big lady by any means either a fit 5'4" @115lbs) so I kicked it up agian and swapped the M&P for an XD45. Another great gun, a little tougher to get the 13th round in the mag, and just a hair tougher to rack the slide but nothing she couldn't handle, and she said she really didn't notice a difference in the recoil, but it was louder. Again, couple hundred rounds later...
A couple of questions to those who have shot both guns in either the same caliber, or all calibers. The XD45 seemed to be a little top heavy and not as balanced as the M&P 9 like the distance from the top of my grip to the centerline of the barrel was much greater, is it the same with the XD9 or is that simply a result of the larger shell casing? Therefore, does the M&P in .45 have a lower bore centerline like the 9mm or is it higher due to the larger caseing? Unfortunatly I was not able to compare apples to apples or oranges to oranges. The XD45's extra flip seemed to come from the added distance then from the caliber itself. I am looking for a HD handgun that we can take to the range and have some good cheap fun (!!!) The 9 will be cheaper but in which gun? I prefer the .45 and my wife liked the XD as well how does an M&P 45 shoot?
He did have 3 Gold cups for sale but none for rent, she thought it was heavy, I thought it was heaven.
Opinions and thoughts please, and thanks for letting me rant...