Was the XDM trigger at least better than the "standard" XD model? I thought that was supposed to be a selling point.
For $50, I installed the Powder River Precision trigger kit, and my XD45 is awesome. The pretravel can be set to your liking, trigger pull is light and crisp, and reset is minimal (or at least Glock-like).
I've shot Glocks a lot over the course of 15 years (even owned a 17 and a 21), and the only XD that I have ever experienced is my XD45 (4"). I sold both Glocks (probably to finance other gun acquisitions), and sometimes I miss them, sometimes I don't. I still have the XD, and now that I have installed the trigger kit, I probably won't get rid of it, but you can never say never. That isn't to say that I won't acquire another Glock, and I probably will. Frankly, other than grip angle and the way that the Glock all-plastic trigger can pinch your finger, I never noticed much difference between the two. I believe that both have equal efficacy and both are totally effective in the final analysis. Subjectivism shall rule.
Oh, and ditto the poet!