Listen to roman3! Either of these pistols is going to be tough for a woman to hang onto; and, if experience is any guide, your wife isn't going to feel like practicing a lot with either one. If small is what it takes I'd recommend either one of the smaller 357 magnum revolvers like my own wife carries, or even a Beretta Tom Cat in 32 acp like I carry as a BUG.
Regular practice is a big part of successfully using and carrying any pistol. If it aint comfortable to put 100 rounds through on a Saturday morning then accuracy and handling skills are sure to suffer. All women seem to gravitate to small guns - Just as quickly as they gravitate away from them after trying to actually use one for awhile. ('Why does it have to weigh more than my cosmetics case?')
When I bought my wife a Ruger SP-101 I did something really smart and, also, bought her a new handbag to carry it in. Yeah, she complains about, '
the weight' all the time; but she, also, hits whatever she points that little Ruger at inside 12 yards, too.
The only way to get her to stop complaining about,
'the weight' or using that stupid excuse; '
I've got you; what do I need my own gun for?' is for me to hire the same two gangbangers who attacked her and almost stole our new car 3 years ago. She was scared silly for more than a year afterwards, and wouldn't even go to the mailbox without her Ruger; but, with the passage of time, she's now back to her old laissez faire attitude of, 'mug and get mugged' - '
It won't happen to me again!'
I'm taking her with me to the range today. In an effort to get her to start taking better care of herself, again, I'm almost ready to part with my very accurate and easy to shoot little Beretta 32.
(Besides, I like the larger Ruger SP-101: It's small enough; it's very strong; it's accurate, and a hard hitter too - All-in-all an excellent little gun that carries a reliable manstopper round. Something that few women are ever going to fully understand until AFTER it's already too late.)
Hers - (For now!)
Mine - (For, at least, a little while longer!)