well finally after 5 months of plans getting messed up one way or another today my girlfriend and her son are going to the range with me this afternoon , I loaded some soft rounds for her to start out on and bought a brick of 22's for the Boy , (that will last what a whole 5 min ) she want to try out my .45 and .357's so I hope to have some fun . I will let you know the outcome . I have had several hurdels to get used to like how to shoot left handed ( shes a southpaw , and thanks to all the TFLer's for the advice on doing this I tried to learn left handed shooting arrrgghhh !! but now I know If i had to I could do it !) well now to load the arsenal up and get ready