Yes, its OT, but I wanted to share anyway.
Here's a new one for you all:
Last night I had the distinct honor of getting into an accident. With a 1996 Dodge Viper GTS. Blue with white racing stripes, 8 Liter V-10, 550 HP. (YES, 550. No, its not stock.)
My incredibly generous uncle let me borrow it for the week.
I was stopped at an intersection with a buddy in the car. Light turns green, I gun it. Too much. That thing has more torque than the Titanic. Seriously. Fishtailed like you wouldn't believe, and straight off the road, down a 70 degree incline about 20 feet into a ditch.
Can I even begin to describe what I was feeling? No. I won't even try.
First, my friend and I are both ok physically. I am not so ok mentally. I was obviously flipped out about the car. The tow truck guys and the cops were telling me how many accidents they've seen where the people simply don't hop out like I did. They get carried away. In a body bag. (Or sometimes in several.) By the coroner. We were incredibly lucky we didn't flip. If it had, my friend and I would probably be dead or close to it.
The tow truck guys especially were saying "its only a car. You should be so happy it wasn't your life. Its just metal. It gets fixed."
This is a pretty serious situation, for several reasons:
1) My friend and I very well could have died. Seriously.
2) I fu*ked up someone else's $100,000 toy.
Needless to say, this incident has sparked torrents of thought on my part. On the way home in the tow truck, I was talking with the driver (who, interestingly enough, went to Berkeley, and was in the Army! Go figure!) about all the **** he's seen.
Its just so sad; so many people who have died just because they were going a little (or a lot) too fast in a car. No more, no less. Not because some thug wanted their money or car, not in self-defense. Just for speeding. Not even necessarily drunk. Just going too darn fast.
Hell, just a few weeks ago a girl my sister's age who went to our high school died in a car accident because some idiot was speeding, crossed the median on the hwy, hit her head-on, and killed her, himself and his passenger. Just for going too fast.
This made me rethink my priorities. Its just a car. It gets fixed. It is insured. I cannot be fixed as easily, and I am not insured. It is just metal and plastic. Made me rethink a lot of stuff. Like how fragile and precious life is, and how it truly can be taken away from us at any time.
I really do respect my elders. I have a HUGE, wonderful, loving family and extended family whom I treasure, and who treasure me. I really do try to learn from older, more experienced people, as we all do here on these forums.
Sadly, being young, and perhaps just because I'm me, there are some things that I just do not learn from others. Like how to drive more slowly. I am not reckless. Just faster than I should be. From now on, I truly will not be. I'm always attentive, looking around at what cars are around me and where, paying 180% attention. But I'm not sure that is good enough.
Quite a wake-up call to think "I seriously, honestly could have died just now." I tried to picture them pulling my body out, and the reactions of my parents.
It just is not worth it.
I just wanted to share this with you all.
I want to make one request of people here, specifically the younger crowd:
Take it from someone who's been there, done that; Listen to those who are older and more experienced than you. Believe it or not, they may have a reason for what they're telling you, and they just might be right.
Oh, and slow down. Please.
Here's a new one for you all:
Last night I had the distinct honor of getting into an accident. With a 1996 Dodge Viper GTS. Blue with white racing stripes, 8 Liter V-10, 550 HP. (YES, 550. No, its not stock.)
My incredibly generous uncle let me borrow it for the week.
I was stopped at an intersection with a buddy in the car. Light turns green, I gun it. Too much. That thing has more torque than the Titanic. Seriously. Fishtailed like you wouldn't believe, and straight off the road, down a 70 degree incline about 20 feet into a ditch.
Can I even begin to describe what I was feeling? No. I won't even try.
First, my friend and I are both ok physically. I am not so ok mentally. I was obviously flipped out about the car. The tow truck guys and the cops were telling me how many accidents they've seen where the people simply don't hop out like I did. They get carried away. In a body bag. (Or sometimes in several.) By the coroner. We were incredibly lucky we didn't flip. If it had, my friend and I would probably be dead or close to it.
The tow truck guys especially were saying "its only a car. You should be so happy it wasn't your life. Its just metal. It gets fixed."
This is a pretty serious situation, for several reasons:
1) My friend and I very well could have died. Seriously.
2) I fu*ked up someone else's $100,000 toy.
Needless to say, this incident has sparked torrents of thought on my part. On the way home in the tow truck, I was talking with the driver (who, interestingly enough, went to Berkeley, and was in the Army! Go figure!) about all the **** he's seen.
Its just so sad; so many people who have died just because they were going a little (or a lot) too fast in a car. No more, no less. Not because some thug wanted their money or car, not in self-defense. Just for speeding. Not even necessarily drunk. Just going too darn fast.
Hell, just a few weeks ago a girl my sister's age who went to our high school died in a car accident because some idiot was speeding, crossed the median on the hwy, hit her head-on, and killed her, himself and his passenger. Just for going too fast.
This made me rethink my priorities. Its just a car. It gets fixed. It is insured. I cannot be fixed as easily, and I am not insured. It is just metal and plastic. Made me rethink a lot of stuff. Like how fragile and precious life is, and how it truly can be taken away from us at any time.
I really do respect my elders. I have a HUGE, wonderful, loving family and extended family whom I treasure, and who treasure me. I really do try to learn from older, more experienced people, as we all do here on these forums.
Sadly, being young, and perhaps just because I'm me, there are some things that I just do not learn from others. Like how to drive more slowly. I am not reckless. Just faster than I should be. From now on, I truly will not be. I'm always attentive, looking around at what cars are around me and where, paying 180% attention. But I'm not sure that is good enough.
Quite a wake-up call to think "I seriously, honestly could have died just now." I tried to picture them pulling my body out, and the reactions of my parents.
It just is not worth it.
I just wanted to share this with you all.
I want to make one request of people here, specifically the younger crowd:
Take it from someone who's been there, done that; Listen to those who are older and more experienced than you. Believe it or not, they may have a reason for what they're telling you, and they just might be right.
Oh, and slow down. Please.