Rcksil--230 gr. RN, OAL of 1.275" per Lyman manual sounds like you're loading .45ACP.
The crucial length for this cartridge is the case length, since in this cartridge the gun headspaces on the case mouth. So you want 'em all trimmed to exact length.
Precisely how deep you seat any given bullet is another matter, governed mostly by whether the cartridge will feed correctly in yr pistol's magazine, and whether it will feed correctly into the chamber.
Having developed a given load, you want to always seat the bullet for that load consistently to the same depth, so as not to vary the room the powder has when it is ignited. If this varies, so does the pressure the powder exerts, which can affect accuracy, and in extreme cases be dangerous.
So, correct feeding in yr pistol, and consistency, are the 2 biggest factors in .45ACP OAL. IMHO.
Oh, BTW, what you aim for is the bullseye.
(Smirks broadly) Sorry, just couldn't resist.