I have the RAMI in .40 S&W and like it alot. The recoil is not bad in .40, so I don't think you will have any problems in 9mm.. I alternate between the RAMI and an officer size Colt for CC.
I tuck my pinky under the grip and have no problems controlling the gun. There are mags with an extention if you need to place your pinky on the grip.
My RAMI is very accurate and the SA trigger pull is good, I don't use the DA except once in a while on the range, I carry C+L. Others that have handled, and fired it, have had nothing but compliments, and one wants to buy one when he gets the funds.
The price is in the same range as mine was. I have put several hundred rounds through it with no problems at all. I think you are going to like yours and you will not regret your decision to buy it.