In pistol ammo that head-spaces on the case mouth, bullet retention should not determined by the crimp, but by neck tension. More bullet retention in the case will lead to higher pressure when the powder is ignited, which may produce higher recoil. Whether or not one can feel this slight difference is debatable.
I'd bet that you noticed more recoil with the rounds that produced fewer problems because you were shooting more rounds without a failure and your focus was on shooting and not problems with the ammo.