Most handgun stops are psychological stops and that's a very fortunate thing for people who use handguns for self-defense.
If that's true, then a .25 ACP would be about as good to carry as a .45 ACP, yet through evidence from many shootings, the larger calibers
usually stop a BG more reliably. I carry a .38 special because it's easy to carry, and it's "enough" with my abilities with it to protect myself if need be. It's far more effective than a gun at home or in the glove box. Even so, if I thought I needed a bigger gun, I'd carry one.
I hope I never have to fire my gun in self defense and I definitely don't want to kill someone. But, I've been told that if a BG breaks into my house, I should kill him because if I don't, he will come back and sue me for shooting him. I don't think I could purposefully kill him.
Is .38+P good enough for home defense?
Melissa,
The only justified reason for using deadly force (shooting someone) is "to stop the threat of serious bodily injury or death to you or another IF deadly force is immediately necessary to stop that threat.
In my state, there's a condition of "if a reasonable person would believe that deadly force is immediately necessary..."
State laws will vary to some degree, but most would agree to some extent to that.
That said, killing someone with the idea of preventing them from suing you might be considered murder if said threat had ended before you stopped shooting.
To stop the threat, you need to shoot to kill (NOT to injure), but if the threat ends while the perp is still alive, you can't justifiably shoot them again to kill them.
Therefore, you "shoot to stop the threat", rather than "shoot to kill".
Like you, I hope and pray each day that I never have to use my firearm for self-defense against another person. However, if that decision is forced upon me, then I'm prepared to do whatever is necessary to stop the threat to me and/or mine. If the person lives to sue me, then so be it. If not, it was their own doing that led to their demise, and while I would regret their decision, it's better that their life ended for their choices than for me to suffer and/or die at their hands.
Is .38+p good enough for home defense? Probably, but it'll depend on the situation. I like it for minimal penetration of walls, but I also keep a loaded rifle close at hand at night in case I need it.
Daryl