Paranoia....
Setback is real, and can happen, but if you actually look at your ammo once in a while, you should spot it. Don't know about he .40 S&W, don't have, nor want one.
Someone telling you to never chamber the same round twice, I wonder where his head is at. Probably not a good idea to carry ammo that shows wear marks from being chambered and ejected, for Self Defense, on the other hand, you know it will fit in the chamber!
I saved the last magazine of the two boxes of Fed 185gr JHP that I got with my Browning BDA .45, back in 1980. These seven rounds had been loaded in and out of the chamber and different magazines for over 20 years, to the point where the nickel was rubbed off much of the cases.
When I did fire them up a couple of years ago, the all fed and functioned perfectly. I really wouldn't worry about it, unless your gun chews up the ammo during the feed/extract cycle. If it does, I would suggest a little work to the piece, as it should not damage cases.
Never chambering the same round more than once seems kind of paranoid to me. Not to mention expensive.