I peeked.
I have Hornady 8th Edition before me as I type.
For .38 Special, the Hornady 35750 HP-XTP is seated to the crimping groove. The Hornady book shows a C.O.L. of 1.450".
However, this book also shows 4.8 grains of Unique as the maximum charge for normal range pressure (i.e., non '+p') loads. Starting with a high end load is normally not recommended. You can probably get away with it without much danger, but it's not recommended.
To answer your question, yes, seating the bullet deeper will reduce the burning chamber volume and therefore increase chamber pressure. However, since Hornady designed this bullet for use in both .38 Special and .357 Magnum, AND publish loads for this bullet in both calibers AND publish no special instructions about not seating to the cannelure in either round, I wouldn't sweat that OAL thing. (Hornady does publish special instructions about other bullets in the .357 Magnum; so they do that sort of thing when they see fit.)
I believe in crimping revolver rounds as part of the loading process. I have Lee Factory Crimp dies for most of my revolver rounds. It does take up a separate step in the process, but I think it worthwhile. A good crimp does two things for a revolver round; it holds the bullet in place when the revolver recoils - which may or may not be a serious matter - and a good crimp holds the bullet in place when combustion starts and gives a more uniform and cleaner burn to the powder. At least, that's how it seems in my experience.
At the very least, one must remove enough belling to allow easy chambering of the round.
I would suggest you load a few more of this combination WITH A STARTING LOAD of Unique and make sure they fire without incident prior to shooting up these heavier loads.