Kalibear45, do yourself a favor and don't discuss this on a public forum. (Been there, done that).
Call a divorce, criminal law, or other specialized attorney whose reputation is solid. Ask that specialist to recommend a bankruptcy attorney. Then set up an appointment with the recommended attorney.
The first hour is generally free, and I think you'll find that you do not want to declare bankruptcy. There are more options out there than you or I ever can conceive of.
Guns are just a part of the mix.
Good luck, and my thoughts are with you.