not to start a fight, but 45 gunner is WRONG!! what ever is printed on the lower has NO effect to the chamber of the upper. ANY MILSPEC LOWER WILL ACCEPT ANY MILSPEC BASED UPPER. now, you cam go into the past and look at colt's propritary l;owers that had different size front pins, but you probably wont encounter this problem. (besides, they have a remedy for that as well) example: people have lowers that they bought as a 458 socom, but can put a .223 or 5.56 upper on it. the lower is still marked .458 socom. the correct ammunition will be stamped on the barrel.... this is whats important. as to 5.56 vs. .223, the 5.56 has a longer leade, (throat) many reasons for this. also, 5.56 nato ammo is thicker in the web of the brass, and is loaded to higher pressures than commercial .223. (good to know if you reload) if you get an upper, get one marked as 5.56. this will allow you to use 5.56 nato, or .223 commercial ammo and remain safe to use.
get an AR and be proud of it. they are wonderful guns. i have a custom built with a rock river arms upper, bolt group and national match trigger, and a stag lower with a white oak armament 18" SPR barrel in 1/7 twist. the gun will always shoot better than me, but i have something i can pass to my children and know that it will still be a top quality AR. another cool thing is, with some ingenuity, you can replace all the parts on your gun with minimal hand tools and some knowledge.
as to the 9mm, i believe that they make direct replacment uppers, and a mag well converter to use uzi mags, (just place in you lower, and then the mags go into the converter) but i dont know much about the pistol calibers.... yet... look at olympic arms, they carry tons of AR pistol stuff, and also the very cool WSSM calibers. man, gotta love them AR's!!
brian.