Cheapo,
Well, I get excellent results with Berry's 165 grain TCJ-RNFP in my .40 loads, and excellent results with their 180 grain TCJ-RNFP in my 10 mm loads.
.40 load:
165 grain Berry's TCJ-RNFP bullet
6.6 grains Alliant Power Pistol (6.2 grains minimum, 7.1 grains max)
Any standard small pistol primer (CCI, Remington, Federal, Winchester, Fiocchi Leadless)
COAL = 1.130"
Crimp to 0.421" with Lee Carbide Factory Crimp Die
10 mm load:
180 grain Berry's TCJ-RNFP bullet
8.2 grains Alliant Power Pistol (8.7 grains max)
Any standard large pistol primer (CCI, Remington, Federal, Winchester)
COAL = 1.255"
Crimp to 0.421" with Lee Carbide Factory Crimp Die
I know you don't like the flash of Alliant Power Pistol, but it is one of the most consistent powders that I have ever used, and gives me excellent velocities without the pressure.
If you want the benefits of Power Pistol, but don't want the flash, I would suggest trying Vihtavuori 3N37 or N350.
For the .40:
Same stats as the 165 grain recipe I listed above, but use 6.1 grains VV 3N37 (5.7 grains min, 6.7 grains max)
For the 10 mm:
Same recipe as the 180 grain recipe I listed above, but use 7.4 grains VV 3N37 (6.7 grains min, 7.8 grains max)
Be warned, though, Cheapo, that often times, VV powders don't come so cheaply. I've been fortunate to find them at South Carolina gun shows for 68 bucks / 4 lb kegs.