For the most part I use Winchester primers for all of my handgun loads. This said they are a bit warmer than others, but I still use the WSPM when loading the .357's with any powder. Not for any other reason than I started out with an abundance of 296 which I loaded all my revolvers with and they worked great with it. Since I was shooting several hundred rounds a week I was buying bulk.
I have used #9 with the .357 and several different bullets and it worked great. One of my most accurate loads used it, the WSPM, and the 140gr Remington bulk JHP. It is a fun, great shooting load that my wife and daughter both liked to shoot. Very accurate out to 50yds.
I also use #9 in my 10mm under several different 180gr bullets for top end velocities and great accuracy. For those I am using the standard LP primer, and it lights off well for them.
Good luck with your loads, I hope it works out as well for you as it has for me.