Well, as all of us know, an armed society is a polite society. And we know that 99% of the armed populace is MORE polite and restrained to others, and will attempt to avoid confrontation, due to our being armed - mostly because we don't want to start something that may escalate into a need for a defensive firearm use, which results in much hassle and legal liability, not to mention guilt if you shoot someone. I too fall into this category, of being less confrontational when armed (though ordinarily, I can at times be quite confrontational, in accordance with my personality). So my being armed caused my some dischord yesterday, as to what to do:
I was in the parking lot of a China Mart - ehh, Wal-Mart, leaving with my groceries, when I spot what is in my opinion a form of child abuse occurring. It was a man in a small pickup with a small child about 2-3 years old in the passenger seat, standing up, AND with the music blaring so loud that it was "thumping" - you know what I mean - with the windows rolled up. Now, I can imagine that perhaps the seat belt or car seat belt was unbuckled after he entered the parking lot, so I really have no beef with the unrestrained child. BUT, there is NO excuse for harming that child's hearing with that stupid a$$ stereo system, IMO. No reason whatsoever why this should happen. Do it all day to yourself, by all means, but not to a helpless child. Now don't get me wrong - I'm a firm believer that one should be to raise his child however he wants, including spanking (if that's your philosophy), but senseless permanent injury of any type is inexcusable in my view. So I'm thinking, that's it, I'm following this guy till he parks and asking him if he feels like a big man for blasting his stereo like that with the child there, and calling him a dumbass in front of other people to haze him for this, and possibly get his license plate and report him to DHS - I was steamed. Now I'd ordinarily be fully prepared for the natural POTENTIAL result of this - that being getting my butt beat possibly. But being armed stopped me - I didn't want to start something that would potentially escalate into the need for a potential defensive gun use (if the guy proceeded to pull a weapon let's say). So at that moment, I actually wished I wasn't armed (first time for everything), and went about my business. So, that's a downside - your personality can be restrained - this could be viewed as good or bad in this particular situation, depending on your viewpoint - good for me, bad for the child, IMO. Oh well.... food for thought.
I was in the parking lot of a China Mart - ehh, Wal-Mart, leaving with my groceries, when I spot what is in my opinion a form of child abuse occurring. It was a man in a small pickup with a small child about 2-3 years old in the passenger seat, standing up, AND with the music blaring so loud that it was "thumping" - you know what I mean - with the windows rolled up. Now, I can imagine that perhaps the seat belt or car seat belt was unbuckled after he entered the parking lot, so I really have no beef with the unrestrained child. BUT, there is NO excuse for harming that child's hearing with that stupid a$$ stereo system, IMO. No reason whatsoever why this should happen. Do it all day to yourself, by all means, but not to a helpless child. Now don't get me wrong - I'm a firm believer that one should be to raise his child however he wants, including spanking (if that's your philosophy), but senseless permanent injury of any type is inexcusable in my view. So I'm thinking, that's it, I'm following this guy till he parks and asking him if he feels like a big man for blasting his stereo like that with the child there, and calling him a dumbass in front of other people to haze him for this, and possibly get his license plate and report him to DHS - I was steamed. Now I'd ordinarily be fully prepared for the natural POTENTIAL result of this - that being getting my butt beat possibly. But being armed stopped me - I didn't want to start something that would potentially escalate into the need for a potential defensive gun use (if the guy proceeded to pull a weapon let's say). So at that moment, I actually wished I wasn't armed (first time for everything), and went about my business. So, that's a downside - your personality can be restrained - this could be viewed as good or bad in this particular situation, depending on your viewpoint - good for me, bad for the child, IMO. Oh well.... food for thought.