Heh, heh. Good to hear from you!
As for some of the other questions you mentioned, I don't really think that the exact measurement of seating depth below flush makes a difference, as long as you seat VERY slightly below flush.
For a revolver, though, the seating depth is up to you--and no real crimp is required. Just straighten out the crimp and you should be set. Remember, it's a real soft bullet, like the swaged Star bullets, and too much crimp will deform them. Some amount left out might actually be helpful, as the bullet will not have to rub the chamber throats to center in the bore. Hope all this helps!