Don't have a S&W 3913 but I thought that I would add my two cents. Yes, Speer does still make their 9mm short barrel load. With a 3.5" barrel try to chose a load with a lighter for caliber weight (i.e. 115 grain - 127 grain). The standard 124 grain +P Speer Gold Dot load works well out of short barreled handguns. CorBon's DPX 115 grain +P load is also a very good short barrel load. Just try to stay with the lighter bullets and something in +P an you will be fine, as long as it is a premium defense load. Corbon DPX, Federal Hydra-shoks, Remington Golden Sabers, Speer Gold Dots, and Winchester Silvertips and SXT's all work well.