There seems to be some misconceptions about the reason for tumbling. First and foremost is to get the cases clean, so you don't carry dirt and abrasives into a steel die. That crud can and will scratch the die. Then each case sized after that will be scratched.
So tumbling before sizing is a must. Whether you shine the cases, is an added feature, but not necessary. I happen to LIKE shiny brass. Gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling. While it does nothing to aid in accuracy, it just looks nice.
As for getting the media out of the cases, get a media separator.
This is that brass in the top pic before it was tumbled for about 3 hours. That's 40 S&W in corncob media with flitz tumbler polish added.
The FA tumbler and separator work just fine together. About 20 turns of the basket removes the media from even .223 brass,
IF the media is the right size. Corncob, like the stuff in the pics, is sold by lots of reloading sites. It IS the right size for even .223 brass. I suspect it would even come out of .17 caliber necks, but may take longer.
I never tumble AFTER sizing. There's just no reason for me to do it. I remove lube with a paper towel soaked in denatured alcohol. If I'm loading .223/.308 on the dillon 650, I tumble the loaded ammo for about 20 minutes to remove the lube.